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The MATTERS™ Approach

Multisensory Advocacy Tailored Therapeutic Emotion Regulation Support

A Meta-Approach to Human Flourishing

The MATTERS™ approach is a transdiagnostic, neuro-affirming metatheoretical framework designed to move psychotherapy beyond the limitations of the medical model. Developed by Shaylynn Hayes-Raymond, MATTERS™ was born from the lived experience of misophonia and the recognition that traditional "one-size-fits-all" interventions often fail to account for the unique neurophysiological reality of the individual.


The Philosophy: Why "MATTERS"

The name is an intentional double meaning. It acknowledges the biological matter—the chemical and neurophysiological compositions that dictate our experiences—and it serves as a radical affirmation that the individual’s subjective lived experience matters.

We believe that humans are not merely a collection of behaviors to be "corrected," but a complex accumulation of emotions, thoughts, and physiological traits. By staying agnostic to diagnosis, the MATTERS™ approach focuses on individual expression and trait-based support rather than DSM-heavy labeling.


The Core Pillars

  • Multisensory Perspective: We recognize that emotional regulation is a "bottom-up" process. We prioritize the sensory system as the foundation of mental health, acknowledging that a regulated nervous system is a prerequisite for cognitive work.
  • Advocacy-First: Therapy does not exist in a vacuum. MATTERS™ incorporates advocacy as a core clinical tool, empowering individuals to reshape their environments and challenging the systemic stigmas that pathologize neurodivergence.
  • Tailored Support: We reject the term "intervention" as infantilizing. Instead, we utilize collaborative, tailored strategies that respect the autonomy of the individual, treating them as the expert of their own internal world.
  • Neuro-Physiological Agnosticism: While we embrace psychoeducation and academic research, we view diagnostic tools as limited maps. We focus on the "matter" of the person—their unique chemical and sensory makeup—rather than a medical chart.

Who It’s For

While rooted in the specialized understanding of Misophonia, the MATTERS™ meta-approach is designed for any individual navigating a world not built for their brain, including those experiencing:

  • ADHD & Autism
  • Misophonia
  • OCD & Anxiety
  • Trauma-related dysregulation
  • Sensory Processing Differences

"The question of 'what are we' is far more complex than any one discipline can answer. MATTERS™ exists outside the traditional paradigm to ensure that no matter the diagnosis, the human being always comes first." > — Shaylynn Hayes-Raymond, Creator of MATTERS™


MATTERS™: Because your neurophysiology, your advocacy, and your story matter.

Shaylynn's Practice: https://shaylynnraymond.com/

The International Misophonia Foundation: misophoniafoundation.com/

Misophonia International: https://misophoniainternational.com/